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How AA Members Chase People Away From Sobriety

The real reason they don’t “keep coming back”

Dave Tieff
5 min readFeb 3, 2025

My Instagram page has become a fantastic way to connect with other alcohol-free (AF) people — one that I never expected. As a musician, I first got on IG to promote my music, but that started to evolve as soon as I began to post about sobriety.

As expected, I received some feedback from those who listen to my music but also like to drink. Some were a bit confused — and maybe even a bit put off by it.

That’s understandable, mainly because it started as a music page, and I never want to come across as “holier than thou” by posting about sobriety.

If you knew me or my story, you would know that I’m holier than NO ONE — nor would I ever claim to be. I like to wear my imperfections on my sleeve.

In the process, my Instagram page — and those I’ve connected with — has become somewhat of a niche group.

Specifically, people who are sober without Alcoholics Anonymous.

If you’ve read my other articles, it’s pretty easy to see how this occurred. I’ve been vocal about sobriety and critical about many of the things that I experienced in AA.

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Dave Tieff
Dave Tieff

Written by Dave Tieff

Alcohol-Free singer-songwriter & AI-proof cyber journalist. Here to discuss everything sex, drugs, rock, and culture🤘🍄🎙💋 www.davetieff.com

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