I hear you.
I've heard you, and women like you, for decades, and it has influenced how I vote since I was old enough to vote--and I'm now 54.
I support women's rights across the board and always have--even though millions of women do not.
With that said...
"Women are hated" is an asinine statement.
Statements like that make the problem as a whole WORSE--that's the part that some feminists can't seem to understand. When you make patently false statements that no one can take seriously, it dilutes the entire message.
I don't deny that misogyny exists, but so does misandry, and neither one will improve until we stop making blanket statements that victimize or demonize an entire sex.