I vilify the bigotry of a certain group of women. I'm specific--it's right in the first paragraph so you can't miss it.

That's the difference.

And..I'm not saying I disagree with the courts decision, necessarily. My ex wife and I get along great and happily co-parent together. She dislikes WTF more than I do.

I'm just pointing out that the system that "always favors men" favors women in the some of the biggest life decisions there are.