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When Are You No Longer “Sober?”

A few years ago, I attended the 20th sober anniversary of an old friend of mine who was, and still is, a faithful member of Alcoholics Anonymous.

AA is where we met, and while I had unceremoniously left the program, I wanted to be there for my friend’s celebration.

When the meeting and celebration concluded, he was busy thanking those who came out, but I wanted to make sure to congratulate him in person.

He looked happy (and surprised) to see me when I approached, but there seemed to be something he wanted to get off his chest.

I congratulated him on his 20 years and gave him a big hug, but with a less than jovial expression, he replied, “Thanks man, it’s been a long road — if you only knew.”

Knowing that I was still sober but no longer attending AA, he began to tell me something that I didn’t think he was comfortable saying to anyone else there.

At least not at his 20-year celebration.

I knew he had gotten a divorce a few years back, but I had no idea what he was about to divulge.