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What Women Have All Wrong About Men
Pt. 4 “Where are all the good men?” The answer is obvious
We hear this question often and see it posted regularly on social media. It’s typically posted by a disillusioned single woman in her 30s (or older) who just got home from a deflating night on the dating scene.
You can almost smell the espresso martinis through Facebook.
The answer to the question is so obvious that it is often overlooked or ignored.
Question: “Where are all the good men!?”
Answer: They’re married.
They got scooped up in their 20s — or taken by a woman in their 20s — and they are at home with their wives and/or children being good men.
I have no desire to get married again, so while I consider myself a “good person,” I’m disqualifying myself from being a “good man” in this scenario.
In other words, I’m not what women seek in a “good man” simply because I’m not looking for a relationship.
But what about the “good men” who are single and looking?
We must first define what a “good man” is to answer this question.
In terms of what women, in general, are looking for, we can assume it’s a guy who is gainfully employed, bathes…
