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What Women Have All Wrong About Men

Pt. 3: All men want is sex

Dave Tieff
6 min readFeb 19, 2025

I welcome the comments — and the critics — but I want to emphasize that there are no absolutes when discussing men. That’s the whole point.

There is no single way that all men think or act, and it’s ignorance and bigotry to insist we do.

Yes, there are some men who only desire sex from women — those knuckleheads do exist — but they are a tiny minority. It’s more accurate to say, “Most men think about sex frequently.”

Guilty as charged.

Don’t blame us — blame the manufacturer. It would be like blaming women for having a menstrual cycle, blaming the ocean for being wet, or the sun for being hot.

It’s nature. It’s biological. It’s hard-wired. It ain’t gonna change.

However, just because we think about it often does not make it the chief aim of our existence — or even our primary desire for women. Keep reading; I will expand on that.

It’s challenging to verbalize to a woman how men think about sex, but I’m going to give it the old college try.

Ready?

It’s kind of like a movie playing in the background of our minds or the periphery of our imagination on a near-constant basis.

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Dave Tieff
Dave Tieff

Written by Dave Tieff

Alcohol-Free singer-songwriter & AI-proof cyber journalist. Here to discuss everything sex, drugs, rock, and culture🤘🍄🎙💋 www.davetieff.com

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